Weddings are a momentous occasion in any couple’s life. Any married couple will tell you that years down the road, what they will remember most is the well wishes and warm greetings they received that day. Sentimental couples may even keep the actual wedding cards and notes as keepsakes.

It’s not every day that your best mate marries his childhood sweetheart, so take the opportunity to send the happy couple a heartfelt message to commemorate this special occasion. If you’re struggling to put pen to paper, here are 5 few tips on what NOT to put that might help narrow things down:

A wedding anniversary is a special occasion by all means. Every year into a strong marriage is a testament to the undying love that is shared between two people, despite the trials and hardships of married life. However, while everything about a wedding anniversary is more than merry and worthy of awe and appreciation, there’s one problem that arises during every celebration: wedding anniversary gifts.